We are living in strange times. Turns out that New York will now fine business owners $250,000 US dollars for misidentifying a transgender person by which I mean freak. You will have to use gender neutral terms such as hir, zir, hen and a few others. For example instead of Mr or Ms you have to use Mx, pronounced mix. Personally, I'm sticking to calling them it. It is very gender neutral but oddly enough it seems to offend them --Dave G.